Thursday, 23 July 2015

Tempting Sentiments

In this odyssey of life we do often run into various feathers of people. With the passage of time mostly whom we meet, they retreat and fade away. But we give few specific ones especial place in our lives but not everyone of them turns out to be somebody who make us a better person but actually are just opposite.
We, being much in control of our sentiments often love others so much that we even forget that we love ourselves too. There's often a time, when life hits hard upon you; knock you down and a person lifts you out of that and loves you in a way that you think no other person can do: In return you provide him/her the liberty to receive your care and love forever.
But what if that person only invades your freedom, shatters your expectations and robs you out of your happiness?

We unknowingly let that other person to take control over our lives. We become so dependent that it appears we might not survive without them. We allow them to row our boat of life, without realizing that they only know whatever we have told them about us. They pretend to be a life saviour in the mighty sea but originally they themselves are the anchor that pull us deep down into sea from where there is no returning. They are certainly and undoubtedly no better than a parasite living on your body which feeds on you and of-course in no way beneficial.

In this life of emotional turmoil, we are frequently confused with our sentiments attached to a particular person. We, time and again, give them the liberty to influence our everyday life and be a part of it. While, they always feel they are being betrayed by us but the actuality is reverse. We try to neglect their tainted and painted reality because our sentiments attached to them don't allow us to do so and we simply end up being attached to them until they betray us a million times more and destroy us.

Its the way it is. Some people are needed to be left and that's a harsh fact of life. No doubt they are the once that might have lift you up through tough times but they are also the once that want to take away whatever you have earned later. You should learn to know how to direct your tempting sentiments; And in that way you move forward, leaving the trash in past, to know the people who are with you in a true way.

In life we never loose friends, we just learn who the true ones are!

Sunday, 19 July 2015

On the way..

In this awfully exciting life, no wonder, series of uncertain event often give nourishment to our hunger of life within our sometimes resentful lives. We do frequently look back into our long gone past with thirst of some memories of joy, glee, triumph, and love but mostly end with gloomy, miserable, desolate and rejected reminders. We, other-time, also foresee our upcoming days with a hope for untroubled fortunes and success disregarding the fact that we pitiful humans, are not even sure of waking up the next day.

I was sitting with my group of friends, observing the series of human establishments, green fertile land and people going past; through the window of the crackling active bus, while my trip to Amritsar. Travelling has always been something that had never missed any single chance of amusing and amazing me. Most people like one of my dear friend liked the window seat more while I preferred a companion with whom I can have a healthy talk. 
Discussing Ideas and experiences with each other make us live the life that isn't ours. Everybody has had seen days, months and years of majestic events of unpredictable mortal existence, So do us. We shared our happenings with the people, situations, and the voyage of life. During those indescribable small talk, I learnt about the right way of living life. 

Life is neither in the buried past nor we can sit hoping it in the later days. Both the facts are upsetting but its true. Life is something we create and not what we find. We need to invest ourselves in any moment to create life in it. Without losing anything first we can't gain anything. Its natures law of equivalence. You need to loose your worries and pain to acquire what God want us to receive. Smile a little more and think a little less. Let bygones be bygones and cherish what's in the present without bothering for future.

And amidst all the talks and all the thoughts, I didn't forget to admire and felt fascinated by the beauty of barren fields ranging to an unfathomable distances as the dusk fell, while still being in the crackling active bus.