Tempting Sentiments

In this odyssey of life we do often run into various feathers of people. With the passage of time mostly whom we meet, they retreat and fade away. But we give few specific ones especial place in our lives but not everyone of them turns out to be somebody who make us a better person but actually are just opposite.
   
We, being much in control of our sentiments often love others so much that we even forget that we love ourselves too. There's often a time, when life hits hard upon you; knock you down and a person lifts you out of that and loves you in a way that you think no other person can do: In return you provide him/her the liberty to receive your care and love forever.
But what if that person only invades your freedom, shatters your expectations and robs you out of your happiness?

We unknowingly let that other person to take control over our lives. We become so dependent that it appears we might not survive without them. We allow them to row our boat of life, without realizing that they only know whatever we have told them about us. They pretend to be a life saviour in the mighty sea but originally they themselves are the anchor that pull us deep down into sea from where there is no returning. They are certainly and undoubtedly no better than a parasite living on your body which feeds on you and of-course in no way beneficial.

In this life of emotional turmoil, we are frequently confused with our sentiments attached to a particular person. We, time and again, give them the liberty to influence our everyday life and be a part of it. While, they always feel they are being betrayed by us but the actuality is reverse. We try to neglect their tainted and painted reality because our sentiments attached to them don't allow us to do so and we simply end up being attached to them until they betray us a million times more and destroy us.

Its the way it is. Some people are needed to be left and that's a harsh fact of life. No doubt they are the once that might have lift you up through tough times but they are also the once that want to take away whatever you have earned later. You should learn to know how to direct your tempting sentiments; And in that way you move forward, leaving the trash in past, to know the people who are with you in a true way.

In life we never loose friends, we just learn who the true ones are!







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